Good day, mate!

Nabil Hariz Ariff

1. Loving somebody is not easy. It takes a lot of courage and a lot of patience. Be patient.

2. Sometimes it’s hard to say how you feel. I get it, I really do. It leaves you vulnerable and that’s never an easy thing to do.

3. Listen to the small things they say, it usually means the most.

4. No matter how good or bad a situation is, it will change.

5. When you love someone, you fall in love with all of your favorite things. You must also fall in love with every thing you fucking hate about them.

6. If you love them, you must love all of them. Nobody wants to be loved with only half a heart.

7. Just be fucking honest. Speak your mind, but watch your words. Sometimes the smallest ones hit the deepest.

8. Space always helps. Give each other space sometimes. Eventually they’ll come around.

9. If they want to break up, never let them leave without a fight.

10. There are going to be bad days. A lot of them.

11. There will also be very good days. Many of them, I’m sure of it.

12. You may never agree 100% on everything, and that’s okay. It’s good to butt heads sometimes and listen to each other’s opinions.

13. You will never find a perfect partner. Stop looking for one and enjoy their flaws.

14. Get comfortable with each other.

15. Lay in bed together, all day, watch movies until your eyes hurt from staring at the screen.

16. Spend time with each other’s families. It will mean a lot.

17. Don’t let one fight ruin months worth of building a relationship. Just don’t.

18. Don’t be too proud to stop talking and just listen to each other.

19. Always, Always, encourage them to chase their dreams.

20. Don’t talk for a day or two, you’ll realize how often you think of them and it will become more noticeable. It’ll make you miss them like hell, and that’s good.

21. Surprise them at nine in the morning when they’re still in a deep sleep.

22. Touch each other’s faces, literally, play with it. It’ll eventually become a habit and will be something special.

23. You can never remind them enough how much you love them.

24. Don’t forget their birthday, ever.

25. Teach them to love themselves as much as you love them. It’ll help them be able to be more confident with themselves.

26. Sometimes they’ll close up. Don’t always try to be so pushy about it. Just remind them that it’s okay to open up and it’s okay to share things with each other. Let them know that they can get comfortable.

27. Always make them feel at home.

28. Shower together. Maybe you’ll fall in love with your own body by seeing your partner be overfilled with passion as they stare at yours.

29. Create fun ways to kiss. Fish kisses, Eskimo, plain-sweet-and simple kisses.

30. Always kiss them like you mean it.

31. Fall in love with each other’s voices, because then when you leave it’ll be the thing you lose first.

32. Take pictures together. A lot. One day you will look back at them and remember exactly where you were and how you felt.

33. Love them like hell. I do not say this lightly, love them like fucking hell. Don’t let them forget you.

34. Passion changes everything

35. When you first fall in love it’s supposed to feel awful. Awful, uncertain, scary, wonderful, confusing, all at once. But that’s when you know it’s real. You have to care deeply. Passionately. That hurts.

—35 things I learned when I was in love (via moonlesstides)

I love you
Not only for what you are,
But for what I am
When I am with you.

I love you,
Not only for what
You have made of yourself,
But for what
You are making of me.

I love you
For the part of me
That you bring out;

I love you
For putting your hand
Into my heaped-up heart
And passing over
All the foolish, weak things
That you can’t help
Dimly seeing there,

And for drawing out
Into the light
All the beautiful belongings
That no one else had looked
Quite far enough to find

I love you because you
Are helping me to make
Of the lumber of my life
Not a tavern
But a temple.

Out of the works
Of my every day
Not a reproach
But a song.

I love you
Because you have done
More than any creed
Could have done
To make me good.
And more than any fate
Could have done
To make me happy.

You have done it
Without a touch,
Without a word,
Without a sign.

You have done it
By being yourself.
Perhaps that is what
Being a friend means,
After all.

Love, Roy Croft (via pureblyss)


found this powerpoint thing I made like 3 years ago for school while going through old files on the computer today might’ve posted this before somewhere but I don’t remember ^^;


The Hesitation of Life

(Robert Frost’s Poem Essay)

By: Indra Panigoro

Poem I’ve chosen to be analyzed

The Road Not Taken

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth; 

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim
Because it was grassy and wanted wear,
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day! 
Yet knowing how way leads on to way
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I,
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference. 

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There is a word in German: ebenslangerschicksalsschatz. And the closest translation would be… “Lifelong Treasure of Destiny.” And Victoria is wunderbar(wonderful). but she is not my Lebenslangerschicksalsschatz. She is my Beinaheleidenschaftsgegenstand..It means…”the thing that is almost the thing that you want…but it’s not quite.”…Lebenslangerschicksalsschatz is not something that develops over time.It is something that happens instantaneously.It courses through you like the water of a river…filling you and emptying you all at once.after a storm…You feel it throughout your body…Coming up only in your hands…To show you wrong in your heart…in your stomach…And to know you is your skin..We wonder..Of course you feel it in your Schlauchmachendejungen..

—Klaus, How I Met Your Mother S08E01 (via jankeifer)

(Source: jan-keifer)